When It is OK Not To Share: A Blogger's Quandary

“A Field of Dreams" by Karen Grayburn.

The weekend just gone was absolutely incredible. What a fantastic and fabulous time. A gathering of friends of thirty-odd years in a field in Aberdeenshire for three days - and prepping the festival area for five days before that. It was a delight! I want to blog about it, but it seems just too sacred an experience to share openly.

Blogging and content-writing is often seen as a platform for open and honest expression. A space where we share our thoughts, experiences, and passions with the world. But what happens when you have something burning to say, something that feels important and genuine, yet it's simply not appropriate to share publicly?

It's a frustrating dilemma. You grapple with the urge to connect with your audience on a deeper level, to be truly authentic. But there's a line, a boundary that must be respected. Perhaps it's a personal matter that could hurt others, or something that might be misinterpreted and cause unnecessary drama. Maybe it's just too raw, too vulnerable for a public forum.

It's easy to feel isolated when faced with this challenge. The pressure to constantly produce content can make it seem like you’re failing if you don’t have something to share. But the truth is, it's okay to take a step back. It's okay to prioritize your own well-being and the feelings of others.

So, what can you do when you're faced with this dilemma?

• Find an outlet: Talk about what you can't (or don't want to) write about with someone else. Sharing your experiencing with people can provide immense relief.
• Journaling: Writing your thoughts down can be a powerful way to process your emotions and gain clarity.
• Set boundaries: Remember that you have control over what you share. It's okay to say no to certain topics or to take a break from blogging altogether if needed.
• Focus on other aspects of your blog: If you're struggling to find something to share, try focusing on other areas of your blog, such as promoting other people's work, sharing inspiring quotes, creating helpful resources or blog about how it is ok not to share.

Remember, your blog or article is a reflection of you, but it doesn't have to be an all-encompassing one. It's important to find a balance between sharing and protecting your privacy.

Have you ever faced a similar dilemma? How did you handle it?

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